Sometimes we’re hesitant about reaching out to a friend we haven’t seen in a while. We think that they don’t want to hear from us since they haven’t bothered to even contact us once. Then when we get the nerve to contact them we reconnect all over again. Our friend tells us that she missed us and wanted to get in touch all this time but couldn’t.
With music we can be scared to reach out to organize a show, to collaborate with another musician, to release our music. We think that since nobody is bothering us about doing these things then why even bother.
But like with the estranged friend, people do want your contribution. Of course they’re not going to tell you that.
So come on, we’re waiting.